Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Back from being MIA

HAHA jas said i'm MIA, so here i am!
Stopped blogging since day 4, because i didn't know what to blog then.
But now, no more counting of days, cos he's back!
:D
His parents and him bought soooo much stuff for me,
so i must take this chance to thank them.
Thank you darling!
*haha i sound like i'm giving a thank-you speech LOL*

Was MIA on tues and wed cos we met up.
1 week of minimal contact (except for a few SMSes) with each other was kinda tortorous.
This shows that long-distance relationship for me is a no-no,
which brings me to the point that love has 5 languages.
And i've just learnt to discover mine and his.
The 5 languages are:

1. Words of praises
Compliments from your loved one makes you feel loved.

2. Acts of services
When your loved one helps you in certain ways (eg. doing good deeds for you), you feel loved and appreciated.

3. Physical touch
Getting touched (whether sexually or not LOL) by your partner makes you feel loved.

4. Gifts
Receiving gifts from him/her makes you feel loved.

5. Spending quality time with each other
Spending time alone with each other and doing things of common interest together makes you feel loved.

If you don't know which is yours,
think about what you will want to do to make your partner feel loved.

For example, my bf likes buying me lotsa gifts to show me that he loves me.
So his love language is gifts.

I like to stroke my partner's arms to show that i'm always beside him.
So my love language is physical touch.

We both enjoy helping each other to do stuff.
So our love language is acts of services.

However, when i receive gifts, i don't feel as much love as when i receive touches and acts of services.
So i'm not a gift person.

One can have more than one love language.

Learning about each other's love language can give the relationship a huge boost.
Which is yours? (:

-feL*

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